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The Bright Side of Cancer

January 1, 2018 By Michele 10 Comments

“There is no greater teacher of gratitude than a face to face encounter with our own mortality.  For me, cancer has been that teacher, indeed.” –Michele Coriale

I am not angry.  I am not afraid.  I am not asking “why me?”.  I know why me.

Much like many of you, I used to be quick with the “fuck cancer” sentiment—especially after hearing about others’ suffering or succumbing to it.  I mean, what else could I say?  To me (and so many others), cancer was the worst of the worst.  An indefinite sentence of immeasurable suffering.  The epitome of a long and painful death.

That was, until it happened to me.

Cancer is not a curse.  It’s not a punishment from God or a manifestation of negative thoughts.  It’s not something we’ve been holding onto that turns on us with a vengeance.

Cancer is a journey; an experience, if you will.  And, like any other experience, we hold the power to make it good or bad.

I’m not gonna lie.  This diagnosis of ovarian cancer initially threw me for a loop.  An explosion of uncontrollable tears, followed by another explosion of involuntary, operatic screams.

I was beside myself.  Traumatized.  In shock.  In the moment, I was devastated.  If God Himself stood before me and told me in His bold, commanding voice that cancer would give me a glorious opportunity to experience gratitude in its truest and most magnificent form, I would not have believed Him for a second.

But, it’s true.

Before being diagnosed with cancer, I was grateful.  I was blessed with a full and adventurous life, as well as the means and ability to do a lot of work on healing my self.  I practiced yoga, went on retreats, meditated, went to therapy.  I worked hard on letting go of any pain and trauma from my past, and on generating gratitude, so that I could live more freely and peacefully.

But, even after all the work I’d done, I felt as if I’d hit a plateau.  A plateau that could only be overcome by a face to face encounter with my own mortality.

This encounter has forced me to look at life through a magnifying glass.  It’s been a chance for me to observe everyone close to me—including myself—with more compassion, love, acceptance, and less judgement.  It’s given me no choice but to “take it all in,” even hours spent sitting in a waiting room at a doctor’s office—a mundane activity, yes, but also a reminder that I am still here, among the living.

Through such intensive examination, I was able to see the things I previously took for granted—and maybe even tried to run away from (before cancer, I kept a gratitude journal on my nightstand, adding five things every evening before going to bed.  Now, every second of every day is spent in gratitude.  There is just so much to be grateful for!).  This examination has allowed me to feel such intense joy and abundance, unlike anything I’ve felt before in my life.

So, dear friends, if you ever find yourself facing such a seemingly dreadful experience, please try and remember these few things:

Do not stay angry.  Do not sit in darkness or wallow in self-pity.

Acknowledge and embrace the lessons this experience has for you.  Do not lose hope.  There is light to be had—light that can actually aid in your healing.

Wishing you a New Year filled with fresh perspectives, as well as a newfound appreciation for life.

Namaste.

xoxo

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  1. Cousin deb says

    January 1, 2018 at 5:15 pm

    Your strength is amazing. Love ❤️ you

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  2. Cousin deb says

    January 1, 2018 at 5:15 pm

    ❤️

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  3. Darlene says

    January 1, 2018 at 5:25 pm

    Love you Mich. I always knew you were amazing watching your strength through this time has really made the world see what I always saw. Love you and will always be here and thank you for showing me what’s important in life xoxo

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  4. Melissa says

    January 1, 2018 at 6:07 pm

    You really do amaze me! Your strength and positive outlook is inspiring. Reading your posts reminds me to remain grateful for all of the little things. I hope to see you in 2018! Stay strong my friend xoxoxo

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  5. Carol Ramondo says

    January 1, 2018 at 6:16 pm

    You are an inspiration, my sister. Sending you much love and may 2018 be a journey that continues to inspire, make you stronger, and keep you positive. You will overcome this, I have no doubt, and admire you so much for your bravery and courage. x3

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  6. Renee says

    January 1, 2018 at 6:31 pm

    Sending you hugs and love. I know that you are strong and you will beat this.

    Much prayers and positive vibes to you

    Go get em girl

    Love
    Renee

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  7. Heather says

    January 2, 2018 at 12:01 am

    You are an inspiration, Michele. I wish only good things for you in 2018.

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  8. Debbie Lievre says

    January 3, 2018 at 12:34 am

    You have said a lot. Henry was right up your alley. 14 yrs he met challenges and for through so many surgeries
    He never gave up and always looked for the light at the end of tunnel. Blessing sending your way. We are dealing with a tuff holiday but always know Henry did it his way

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  9. Dayna says

    January 3, 2018 at 1:00 am

    Beautiful, as always.

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  10. Suzy says

    January 3, 2018 at 1:53 am

    So inspirational and so true! I will definitely keep thinking of this whenever something makes me sad or angry. Thanks for your words!

    Reply

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ABOUT MICHELE

Michele’s journey to yoga has been as powerful as it has been unexpected. A survivor of trauma and of cancer, her path led her to yoga as a form of self-healing. An empath, Michele has always found that she feels the emotions of others as if they are her own. Until she began to teach, she wasn’t sure how she could channel this intuition to benefit others, but through the development of her practice, she has been able to help her clients connect their bodies and spirits to heal. A certified yoga instructor, she has a daily practice of gentle/restorative, yin, slow flow, and vinyasa. She is working towards an additional certification in the teaching of yoga to those with developmental disabilities, and has experience in various types of meditation. Michele is a heart-centered human. Her path is yours: To help you heal, to empower you, to foster your connection between body, mind, and spirit.
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